Vivian and Curtis had to be one of the most unique couples we’ve photographed in 2024. They didn’t want a wedding. They didn’t want a photographer. They don’t like taking photos of themselves without being goofy. They don’t like attention in general. But then, their kindhearted mind was changed to celebrate their love for their parents and extended family who have been waiting for the occasion for a while.

So Brett and I took a short flight to San Jose and documented their day, with a traditional Vietnamese tea ceremony held at the Vivian’s family home first. Surrounded by closed family members, whom by the way LOVE photos. Vivian dressed in elegant ao dai at her brother’s room, symbolizing her cultural heritage.

Following the intimate tea ceremony, the festivities transitioned to a short DYI Chinese tea ceremony, where the couple paid respect to Curtus' side of extended family members. This ceremony was to connect deeply with Curtis’ Chinese roots, joyfully serving tea to their elders, who offered blessings and advice, fostering a sense of unity among generations.

Later in the evening, the wedding reception at Koi Palace in San Jose brought together family from all walks of life. Guests enjoyed a sumptuous feast that featured traditional Chinese dishes, enhancing the celebratory atmosphere. Brett and I sat with the couple and their closed friends and devoured all the delicious food. Just like their simplicity in life, there was no other “wedding traditional” elements in the reception, rather, they had an awesome karaoke stand where many guests started singing and dancing!